Mnyamatayo anali wokondwa kwambiri, anali wokongola komanso wokonda kwambiri kugonana. Monga momwe amanenera mu mwambi wathu wodziwika bwino: "Ngati munditenga ngati munthu, muyenera kundichitira ine ndi mtima wanu wonse! Kupatula kuti pamene adamugwira mkamwa ndi tambala wamkulu wakuda zinali zovuta pang'ono; koma mwanjira ina - zinali zongosangalatsa!
Kugonana ndi mlendo kapena bwenzi latsopano kuli ndi zabwino zake. Zimawonjezera zochitika, ngakhale lingaliro la choletsedwa chotero kwa ambiri limadzutsa, kuwerengera mphamvu ndi malingaliro a mnzanuyo. Kugonana mu bar kumakhala kosangalatsa komanso kosasangalatsa ngati pabedi. Kugonana kumatako ndi kusisita kwa banjali kumayenera kuyamikiridwa ndi kulimbikitsidwa.