Momwemonso, okwatirana omwe ali m'chikondi amagonana mwachikondi ndipo simungawachotsere, mumatha kumva chikondi kuchokera kutali ndipo ngakhale kanema amawonetsa bwino, ngakhale munjira yonyansa. Kujambula ndikwabwino kwambiri, anyamata amasewera bwino, zikuwonekeratu kuti amayesetsa momwe angathere, kukuwa, kubuula, zonse ndi zawo, ndimakonda momwe chilichonse chimaganiziridwa pano, ndikuwonera mosangalala.
Ndi ubale wosangalatsa bwanji womwe m'bale ndi mlongoyo ali nawo, osachita manyazi kapena chilichonse, kutengera zomwe adachita motsatira. Koma zimene amayi awo anachita zinali zoseketsa.